The Balanced Leader: A Path to Sustainable Success
By: Colin Ripmaster, Deputy Executive Director MASSP
As you step into leadership roles in your school, you’ve likely already felt the demands of juggling responsibilities—planning events, supporting peers, representing your class, and tackling unexpected challenges. It’s easy to believe that being a great leader means doing more and working faster. But what if the secret to success isn’t doing more, but doing less—with focus and intention?
A timeless story from a martial arts student offers a helpful analogy. When the student asked their Sensei how long it would take to achieve mastery, the Sensei replied, “10 years.” Determined to speed up the process, the student promised to work harder, practice longer, and give their all. The teacher smiled and said, “In that case, 20 years.”s
The message is clear: whether in martial arts or student leadership, mastery requires balance, not just effort. Pushing yourself to do it all often leads to stress and burnout instead of progress. In a world that praises constant activity and multitasking, slowing down might feel strange—but taking the time to focus and reflect can help you achieve far more in the long run.
Why Balance Matters
Leadership is a lot like building a strong foundation—it’s the small, consistent actions you take that lead to big results over time. But this only works if you take care of yourself and don’t overload your plate. When you try to do too much, you risk losing energy and focus before you reach your goals.
The idea of “slow is smooth, smooth is fast” reminds us that slowing down doesn’t mean slacking off—it means doing the right things with intention. When you take time to reflect, you can:
- Focus on what’s truly important.
- Notice what drains your energy and what inspires you.
- Find creative solutions to challenges.
- Celebrate small victories that lead to long-term success.
Five Strategies to Cultivate Balance
Here are five strategies to help you lead with balance and purpose:
- Learn to Say No
As a leader, people will often ask for your time and energy. It’s okay to politely say no when something doesn’t align with your priorities. This helps you focus on what matters most, like supporting your team, planning events, or making a difference in your school. - Focus on One Thing at a Time
Multitasking might feel productive, but it can leave you feeling scattered. Instead, try “unitasking”—focus on one task, give it your full attention, and take short breaks to recharge before moving to the next. - Take Short Breaks
Even quick pauses during your day—like stepping outside for fresh air or taking a few deep breaths—can help you reset and refocus. These small moments of rest can boost your energy and keep you sharp. - Go for a Walk
When you’re stuck on a problem or need a new perspective, try going for a walk. Whether it’s around the school or outside, walking helps you think more clearly and come up with creative ideas. - Find Your Recharge Space
Everyone needs a place to reflect and recharge. Maybe it’s a quiet spot in the library, your favorite chair at home, or a cozy corner outside. Having a sanctuary can help you stay grounded and make better decisions.
A Reminder to Be Present
Leadership isn’t just about doing things—it’s about being present for your team, your peers, and your school community. Every decision you make, every project you lead, and every conversation you have shapes the leader you’re becoming.
By slowing down, focusing on balance, and leading with purpose, you’ll not only accomplish your goals but also inspire those around you. Remember, the best leaders are those who care for themselves as much as they care for others.
Moving Forward
As you finish this school year and continue your leadership journey, keep balance in mind. True success comes from leading with intention, focus, and care—not from overworking yourself. Your classmates, school, and community deserve a leader who thrives—and so do you.
Here’s to all the great things you’re about to accomplish. Lead with confidence, clarity, and purpose. The impact you’re about to make is just the beginning!